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Monday, April 19, 2010

Picking the Right Online Dating Site Part 2

Most sites will provide free browsing and that will be a good way to get a sense of what type of men and women are on the site. Many times in order to browse you will be asked to input your profile. Go ahead and don't worry this will give you good practice on preparing a profile, in fact you may be able to perfect your profile as you go along. When I first started using an online dating service I stayed with one site as many people do, but as you get confortable with the process, you should explore other sites and sign up with multiple sites in order to increase your chances of meeting Mr. or Mrs Right.


Second  Favorites

Here are a few of my favorite sites:

Christian Cafe:  Christian Cafe is focused on all Christian, all single.  They will allow you to browse for free and offer free trials.  They have a "chat" feature and offer a "quick match" feature.




Christian Dating Service


Catholic Match.com  Started in 1999,  this site had about 500,000 members and focus on a relationship based environnment place where marriage minded catholics can meet and talk about their faith and family aspirations.  Benefits of this site include :
  • Pofile tools highlight faith and family, while assisting in determining common or complementary interests and traits
  • Throgh their exclusive Temperament Test & Quiztique™,  members get to know themselves and a potential spouse more deeply than at other sites
Grow in Faith and Fall in Love at CatholicMatch.com

Picking the Right Online Dating Site Part 1

Internet dating has reshaped relationships of today.  There are thousands of online dating sites poping up on the internet daily.  So how do you pick the right site for you ?  You can start with the First Favoites which include the  best known,  most reputable sites with over one milling members.  The Second Favoites include those with smailler but distinctive membership base.  Once you have experimented with recommended sites either from this blog or your friends, you can do your own search and also find out about that site by typing in "complaints about (the name of the site) to find out more about the reputation of the site.

In The Beginning

Most sites will provide free browsing and that will be a good way to get a sense of what type of men and women are on the site.   Many times in order to browse you will be asked to input your profile.  Go ahead and don't worry this will give you good practice on preparing a profile, in fact you may be able to perfect your profile as you go along.   When I first started using an online dating service I stayed with one site as many people do, but as you get confortable with the process, you should explore other sites and sign up with multiple sites in order to increase your chances of meeting Mr. or Mrs Right.

First Favorites

Here are a few of my favorite sites :

Match.com:  Probally one of the most largest and best site.  This is the site I first started with.  They constantly update their site wth new features and have millions of members.  Here are some of the features they offer:
  • Voice Greetings From Your Phone
  • Match Mobile: Your profile can be transferred to your cell phone and you can connect anonymously with singles near you.
  • Vidoe Greetings and Live Video
  • Online Speed Matching (An online version of speed dating)
  • A Free Personality Test
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Perfect Match.com   This site is easy to maneuver and is for serious minded daters looking for long term committments.  Althought somewhat newcommers to online dating they do boast over one million members.  They highlight the following features:
  • Icebreakers:  If you are shy and not sure what to talk about there are two levels of ice breaker to help you out.  You can email questions such as How do you describe your best friend? 
  • Personality Assesment: This assesment, called the Duet explains personality types and is an important part of matching, it also tells you which traits your partner should share and which should be different.  It summarizes your personal resluts and is a free test.  
  • An Organized Profile:  Includes information on appearance, lifestyle values, likes and dislikes.  Premium members can opt for more hands-on coaching from ciounselores with a profile review and tune-up.
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Chemistry.com  A division of Match.com, offering premimun memberships based on matches after personality testing. They boast a following of 8 million and offer the following benefits:
  • Free Personality Testing
  • Free personalized matches with the potential to trigger chemistry
  • Chemistry provids information and recommendations daily for your match’s personality type.
Try Chemistry! Three months for the price of one!

Monday, April 5, 2010

Building an Online Dating Profile – Where to Start

The most important thing you will do after joining an online dating service is to set up your profile. Many times people will be overwhelmed at the process, but can be really easy if you look at if from the vantage point of being able to put your best foot forward.

A profile that is set up nicely and comes across sincere will increase your chances of finding Mr. Or Mrs Right. Here are some tips and a short video on how to make the most of your online dating profile.

1. Profile Name: Studies show that an interesting profile name draws more attention than a profile with a run-of-the-mill name. “So, how can you pick an interesting profile name? A name that has a flash of sex in it will often do more harm than good. Instead choose a spin off of your name or something you are into, say a sport, hobby or craft. Pair it with a “catchy” word such as a nickname, video game character, movie star or even favorite comic character. You may want to use somehting that describes one of your best features such as Ravishing Red Head, Blue Eyed Gent, Cute Dimples etc.


2. Photo: Studies show that having a photo vs not having one will get you noticed more often. It is not true that not having a photo will make others more curious about you, all they will do is pass you by. In addition if you put a fake looking photo up you will run the chance of getting passed by while another who posts a realistic photo is apt to get many more looks and opportunities to date. If you are not sure about a picture, enlist one of your close friends to help you out an remember always use a current picture.


3. Descriptions: Be as honest as you can, after all how would you feel if you met someone and they turned out totally different than what they had portrayed in their profile ? There simply is no benefit about lying about your height, weight or any similar details. You should not give any personal details like your cell number. This is a good opportunity to describe yourself in a positive light, studies show that you should describe your hobbies, sports, drinking and smoking habits all in an honest light.



In closing, creating an online dating profile should reflect who you really are anything else won’t allow you to find that perfect someone for you. Being honest with a flair for fun will help get more attention that any other profiles. Don’t try to make your profile too serious, think of it as if you were on a first date – wouldn’t you be light and flirtatious ? . Remember, online dating is a fun way to meet Mr. Right or Mrs. Right !