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Thursday, March 11, 2010

Evaluating Yourself to Build a Profile

So now that you have determined that you are ready, the next step is to evaluate yourself so you can build a profile on a dating site of your choice. What ??? How do I talk about myself you say ? I haven’t even told anyone I am going to use an online dating service. Well the best was is to start reflecting back on relationships you have had. Think about the good times and the not so good times. In doing so you should come up with about 20 to 30 characteristics about you that you can rate on a scale of 1 – 10. One being the weakest and 10 being the strongest.

As you start to think back, think about various things you enjoyed in your relationship, t-things you did well and things you didn’t, perhaps reflect on things you would change and things you did perfectly! All these will give you an insight into your personality such as if you are creative, adventurous, accepting, cheerful, empathetic, energetic, friendly trustworthy, reliable, spirtural, talented and many other traits that can describe you. Now is a good time to take stock of yourself. Consider this a good time to evaluate learn and grow. Take the time you need for yourself, don’t shortchange YOU !

Once you have got your list together rate yourself. Start thinking about a profile (which we will talk about later) and what things if any you would like to improve upon (let’s face it, we can all get better). Take time out to work on the characteristics that you scored low on. Your new mate is just around the corner and will appreciate you just as much as you appreciate yourself !

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