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Thursday, March 4, 2010

What exactly is being Ready ? part 2

One author describes it like this

R: Recovered from the past, hopeful about the future
E: Engaged in activities that make you fun and interesting to be with
A: Accepting attitude toward men / women
D: Destined for love because you believe you can shape your destiny
Y: Yearning to connect and communicate with a loving and nurturing partner who
     respects your values, shares ;your interests and wants a close relationship

So lets take a look:

Destined for Love: Some people are very proactive about their careers but in the relationship department they just take the attitude “if it’s meant to be it will be”. While it is true some of the time that people do find each other by chance, more often than not, great relationships have been built on the same principals that they build their careers on: Persistence, preparation and networking. The computer can be your best friend when it comes to online dating. Don’t let your past preconceived notions hold you back from a prospect of happiness. You do have the courage and strength to shape your future. Take the first step.

Yearning to Connect: The most basic need we humans have is to feel loved and to give love. We all show it in different ways. It may be the feeling of mutual respect, finding someone we can talk to easily, someone we who is happy with themselves and therefore we can make happy just by being ourselves as well. We might love to share a meal that is delightful or delight in seeing a newborn chick. It might be a walk in the park, a kiss goodbye in the morning, a hug a night. What ever the feeling of the connection is there is one thing for sure, if your yearning to connect you are ready to make this relationship happen for you – one that could last a lifetime, one filled with fun and excitement with intimacy with a loving partner.

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